Maternity Service?

Julia • May 6, 2025

Maternity Leave: it's Time for a Re-Brand and a Re-Frame

In a recent Instagram reel (ok- I admit it, I was doom scrolling), journalist Emma Barnett shared a sneak peek of her upcoming book, Maternity Service: A Love Letter to Mothers from the Frontline of Maternity Leave. Her words (eloquently and articulate) stopped me in my tracks.


The word "leave" in the context of Maternity Leave is misleading, isn’t it? We often think of “leave” as time away from work, a break, a pause. But in reality, there is no "leave" when it comes to matrescence, especially if it is for the first time. We all know this, yet, no one thought to change the word.


You do leave behind paid work though, and yes, parts of your old self too are left behind. But in return, you’re thrust into a life where you are always on. This new life, where everything changes and you are on call, 24/7, there is no “leave” about it.

This is where the term Maternity Service feels so right. I sighed a huge sigh of recognition and validation when I first heard Emma Barnett’s words.


There’s something about it that rings true to the all-encompassing nature of mothering. Because it is a service, a constant offering of yourself, your time, and your energy. And something more we need to recognize? That mothering is a service to society. It’s a sacred, ongoing commitment to the future that goes largely unseen and forgotten. But other mothers see this. This is why it feel so right for me to be a birth worker at this time. For minds to come and redefine constructs like “maternity leave” and bring us “maternity service”.


The breakdown of extended family units and the weakening of the traditional "village" means that most mothers, certainly all the mothers that I know, are left to navigate this massive shift alone or with minimal support. The demands of matrescence are immense, and yet we often have no real framework for understanding them. We don’t talk about matrescence as a cultural rite of passage, or as an intense, all-consuming work of service. And this lack of language makes it harder for new mothers to see themselves in the full scope of their journey.


But a rebrand could be the first step in changing that.


More than just a break from paid work, maternity service acknowledges the totality of the experience—emotionally, physically, and mentally. It honors the work that goes into raising the next generation, and by doing so, creates a more accurate cultural conversation about what mothers really need.


As mothers, we need to recognize and demand that our work be valued—not as a leave, but as a service that deserves both acknowledgment and support. We need a cultural shift that celebrates matrescence as an ongoing process of transformation, rather than an isolated, fleeting moment in time.


I absolutely love the idea of Maternity Service becoming a regular part of the conversation around motherhood. I believe it has the power to reframe how we think about maternity leave and reshape the way society views the work of mothering. Because in the end, mothers are the key to the cultural changes we absolutely require around themes of pregnancy, birth and postpartum.

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By Julia May 6, 2025
Bear with me—this is going to get pretty niche. And pretty personal, which isn't how I normally like to write my blog posts, but here we go. Before I became a birth worker, I was a teacher—primarily working within the International Baccalaureate Primary Years Program (PYP). After I had my first child, I enjoyed a long maternity service and year later, I experienced the tragic loss of my second son at six months of pregnancy. Amidst the traumatic circumstances and grief, my second birth experience was one of love, humanity, and an unexpected sense of beauty and gratitude. My first birth, on the other hand, was far more painful, impersonal and traumatic. I don’t use the word trauma lightly in either case, but the contrast between the two experiences stirred something in me. So, I did what any PYP teacher would do. I noticed the tension between these experiences, I began investigating and eventually, I had a question. "Why are some births traumatic?". I followed this question into a years long self-directed inquiry. Inquiry, we are taught as PYP teachers, is a cycle provoked when we are engaged and want to discover more. It is a truly motivating and remarkable stance on learning, when we approach learning as inquiry. Different authors and thinkers have created their own cycles, which make great posters for classroom walls, but even they will not teach it in rigid terms. In all models of inquiry, some core components remain pretty much the same: there’s a provocation, a period of time spent investigating, there’s reflection, and finally, action. My own inquiry into birth experiences led me through a rich and messy journey—just like learning often is. It didn't follow the tidy stations of an inquiry cycle poster on a classroom wall (gosh the hours spent agonising over rigid frameworks is something I don’t miss). Instead, it kind of spiralled. I found that I was re-visiting elements of this cycle again and again and again. It is fun, it is exhilarating, it is frustrating and it is reflective. The action elements have been profound and unexpected, like: Giving birth to my third son in 2022 (in case you're wondering: it was wonderful, not a lick of trauma anywhere in sight) Beginning my training as a birth worker, first with KG Hypnopbirthing, then with Birthing from Within and many more amazing institutions and mentors Launching my own website and leading in-person courses (especially that first one back in 2023, first day of school jitters are REAL in all contexts!) Creating the Swiss Birth Stories Podcast This work—rooted in research, connection, experience, reflection, and inquiry—has become one of the most meaningful chapters of my professional and personal life, and I am really loving this journey.
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By Julia February 25, 2025
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